The cpu and cuda backends use fp16 for the VKQ accumulator type, this change
does the same for vulkan. This helps particularly with large head sizes which
are very register-limited.
I tried this for the coopmat1 path and it slowed down a bit. I didn't try for
scalar.
I applied the softmax bias that the cuda backend uses to avoid overflow,
although I was not able to reproduce the original bug without it.
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